This is my explanation of how the “Process” works.
Muscle testing or Kinesiology is a way to tap into that
truth.
During the Process, which takes about an hour and a half,
muscle testing is used repeatedly to guide, direct, and facilitate the person
receiving the process.
A Facilitator is a guide for another who’s desire is to
learn what might be triggering pain or causing a breakdown in emotional,
physical or spiritual health.
To begin the process the facilitator uses muscle testing to
locate the “age of decision”.
What we are looking for in the process is a decision or
belief that is dysfunctional and causing problems in the client’s life.
To confirm the age that muscle testing brings up, we muscle
test a set of emotions and if most of these are “out”, or showing up as present
we are at the right age.
The facilitator also uses muscle testing to determine who is
involved with the decision, for example it could be Mom, Dad, God, others or
all of them.
Then we ask the client to close their eyes and try to locate
the child at the age of decision.
We help them with questions about what might have been
happening at this time. They will often remember stories they have been told or
recall pictures.
The most important thing here is what emotions this brings
up.
If the client is having a hard time finding themself at the
age of decision, we can muscle test again to find an emotion that is showing up
in their energy that needs to be cleared.
The first age I went to in a process for me was age two. Of
course I did not have any vivid memories of being two but could recall pictures
and things I had been told about by my parents.
The facilitator then muscle tested for an emotion that
needed to be cleared.
While we discussed
what might bring this emotion up for a two year old I was able to get in touch
with that feeling (the pain associated with a memory triggering that emotion).
The facilitator then asked me to move it for the child by putting it in a shape
and color.
Using guided imaginary while my eyes were closed I could see this emotion going into a shape and a color and shifting the negative feelings for the two year old.
The facilitator continues to guide the client thru the
process using muscle testing to find emotion points that are out, clearing them
and discussing the feelings and beliefs the child might be experiencing.
Sometimes memories surface but mostly it’s the pain from the emotional
experience that is remembered.
In my first process I learned that a young child is very
connected to its mother/father emotionally. In fact a lot of our first
experiences with painful emotions begin with those connections with parents. As
the Process continued to move I remembered my mother telling me about painful
experiences with my Dad cheating on her.
At this time in my life my mother was experiencing trust
issues with my Dad. Their relationship showed up painful and negative for me.
In order to protect myself I started making decisions, even at this young age,
that would later cause trust issues for me in my relationships.
I knew when the emotional pain I was feeling matched the
pain caused by the belief I formed to protect myself. The emotion I felt brought
clarified for me that I was finding the belief I had formed to protect myself
from this kind of pain.
Throughout this process, the facilitator used muscle testing
to find emotions for me to clear while we discussed dysfunctional decisions
about life and relationships that I might have made because of the painful
emotion I was feeling from my mother.
Once the decision or belief is located we discussed how this
has served or protected the child as well as what it is costing the child to
hold on to that belief. The cost is usually in direct conflict with what the
child really wants in life. In my case what I wanted was to be able to love and
trust without fear of being betrayed.
Once the child is ready to let go of the old dysfunctional
belief the emotion points usually start to hold strong and the client starts to
experience a shift in energy.
The facilitator continues to use muscle testing to make sure
all emotion is cleared and the dysfunctional belief is identified. When emotion
points are holding strong and the client is in what I will call a state of
better awareness, we do a clearing.
The clearing is way of moving all negative beliefs and emotions
that have been identified in the process by stating them out loud and then casting them to the Sun (or
in my case the Son) to be repolarized into positive energy. We then replace the
negative things by stating all the positive attitudes and emotions we now want
to replace them with. The client usually starts to feel more energy shifting
from negative to positive. There is great power in the words we use to live by
and this is also a form of using positive affirmations.
Next we ask the client to call in their higher power.
For most clients I have processed, this will usually be God,
but even if the client can’t call in a higher power we surround the client in
white light. Using the white light to carry all traces of the dark negative
emotions and beliefs away, we ask the client to visualize this happening. Then
we ask them to see the higher power or white light absorbing and replacing all
the darkness with a gift.
With the giving of the gift comes a message for the client,
bringing more enlightenment and shifts in energy.
Energy in the heart begins to shift or change making room
for forgiveness and more love.
We continue the visualization by inviting in those who may
need to take accountability for the client.
The invited guests come into the white light experience in
their white light or higher selves.
We never force a client to invite in anyone but allow the
client to only do what they are ready to do. Although it is really empowering
for the client when they are finally ready to allow someone to take
accountability for their part in the issues causing pain.
We do all the work in the beginning of the process to get to
this part in the white light. Where the client can understand the higher
purpose for having had a dark painful emotional experience in their life. Here
the heart opens and love and forgiveness clear the way for the truth. The truth
about who this person has become in spite of or more rightly because of trials
and pain. This part of the process is most often very spiritual and refreshing
for the client.
Last, continuing the visualization, the adult self comes
into the white light to talk to the child self and thank her for doing the best
she could to survive. Usually giving understanding as to why she would form
such a belief to protect herself. Love, acceptance and understanding are
usually expressed to the child…the child-self most wants to be loved and
appreciated by the adult self. Teaching us to love and forgive yourself.
At the end the adult takes the child-self wrapped in white
light and imagines the child-self integrating back up into who she is today.
Then opening her eyes brings the process to completion.
We usually muscle test and use positive confirmations at the
end to confirm the process complete.
